You booked your Cape San Blas Photographer. You are excited. And then, approximately 48 hours later, the spiral begins.

What are we going to wear for our beach photo session on Cape San Blas?

You booked your Cape San Blas photographer. You open Pinterest. Screenshot 20 different outfit combinations. Then you text your sister. You close the tab & try not to think about it … opens Pinterest again…

Here is what I want you to know before we go any further: the outfits matter a lot less than you think. The photos that will make you stop scrolling through your gallery, the ones that get you right in the chest, will not be the ones where everyone’s outfit is flawless. The photos that that you will love the most, will be the ones where your youngest is looking up at you like you hung the moon, or your oldest is mid-laugh about something nobody else will remember. That is what we are really after.

But you still need to get dressed. So let’s make this easy!

Start with a feeling, not a color palette

Before you pull a single thing out of your closet, ask yourself one question: how do you want these photos to feel?

Relaxed & beachy? Warm & golden? Soft & timeless?

Once you have that feeling, the rest follows naturally. You are not looking for a perfect matching set. You are looking for a group of people who look like they belong together, like they share a life & a vibe & maybe a sense of humor about the fact that getting everyone dressed & out the door is its own kind of miracle.

Coordinated is the goal. Matching is not.

Colors that actually on Cape San Blas

Cape San Blas is specific. The sand on Cape San Blas & Mexico Beach is white & fine & the water runs from clear green to deep blue depending on the season, time of day & the light. That combination is stunning, & it changes what photographs well.

Warm, earthy tones do beautifully here. Creams, tans, soft terracottas, dusty blues, sage greens, warm whites. These tones feel at home against this coastline in a way that reads as intentional without looking overdone.

Cool, muted tones also work well, especially in the off season when the light goes softer. Or for sessions on St George Island. Dusty rose, pale lavender, soft chambray. Anything that feels a little faded in the best possible way.

What tends to disappear: anything too bright or too saturated. Neon anything. Bold graphic prints that compete with the scenery instead of settling into it.

Here is one of my favorite local boutiques in case you need something last minute: [Boutique By The Bay]

What to avoid

A few specific things that will make the photos harder than they need to be:

Bright white on everyone.

One person in white or near-white is fine & often beautiful. A whole family in bright white tends to blow out in the coastal light & flatten the photos. Opt for cream or soft ivory instead.

Head-to-toe matching.

When everyone is in the exact same color, the photos can start to feel stiff & dated. Coordinated is so much more interesting. Think of it like getting dressed together, not getting dressed alike.

Stiff or uncomfortable fabrics.

This applies especially to the kids. A toddler in an itchy dress or a little boy in a button-down that feels wrong is going to tell you about it the entire session. Comfort is not the enemy of cute. Dress them in something they can run & breathe in & they will give you so much more. Plus cotton & linen are so yummy feeling!

Logos and large text.

They date the photos fast & pull attention away from faces. Stick to solids & simple patterns.

A note about the kids

Dress them last. Figure out what the adults are wearing, find something for the kids that coordinates, & prioritize how they feel over how they look. A happy, comfortable kid in something slightly imperfect will photograph better every single time than a miserable kid in a perfect outfit.

Also: bring a backup. Spills happen.  Falls happen. Life happens. If you have a little one, tuck an extra outfit in the beach bag & do not think about it again.

What to actually do this week

You do not NEED to buy anything new. Most families already own something that will work.

Here is the simplest version of this process. Pull five or six pieces from your closet that fit the feeling you are going for. Lay them out on your bed together. Take a photo with your phone. If the group of items looks like it belongs together, you are probably in good shape. If one thing is jumping out at you as wrong, trust that instinct & swap it.

Then stop. Resist the urge to keep second-guessing it. The outfits are done. You can move on to looking forward to the actual session.

And if you have booked me as your Cape San Blas photographer, you will receive my full prep & style guide before we meet. It covers outfits in more detail, where to shop, how to handle the kids, & everything else you need to feel ready for your family photo session on the beach, or anywhere on Florida’s Forgotten Coast.

One last thing

I have photographed a lot of families on Cape San Blas & other Forgotten Coast beaches & I have rarely looked back at a gallery & thought, if only they had worn something different. (Except for that one family that completely ignored everything I recommended & wore neon & graphics! 😅) What I think about is the light on that particular evening on Indian Pass, the way the kids were chasing each other on Mexico Beach at the water’s edge, the moment a dad stopped looking at the camera & just looked at his family instead while on St George Island. Moments of connection.

That is what we are making. The clothes are just the backdrop for it.

If you are planning to book a photographer on Cape San Blas, Mexico Beach, St. George Island or anywhere on the Forgotten Coast & you want someone who will take the pressure off & just help you enjoy it, I would love to hear from you. You can reach out [here] & we will figure out the rest together.

Ready to book your Forgotten Coast photo session? I serve Cape San Blas, Indian Pass, Mexico Beach, Port St Joe & St George Island. [Link to contact page]